My confidence is in him alone. He works all things for his glory and for a purpose. We will have trials and tribulations in this life. It’s not about self help but in Christ alone. 

Our best life for a believer in Jesus Christ is NOT NOW it is in heaven! The world is not our home. We are citizens of heaven. The best thing here on earth is having a intimate relationship with him and guidance of his holy spirit. If you are a believer you will have trials and tribulations. It’s called spiritual warfare.

 For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Ephesians 6:12 ESVhttps://bible.com/bible/59/eph.6.12.ESV

Death is the ultimate healing for the believer. We have this wonderful promise to look forward to when we reach our final destination at home with God in heaven:He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.” And he who was seated on the throne said, “Behold, I am making all things new.” Also he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.” And he said to me, “It is done! I am the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end. To the thirsty I will give from the spring of the water of life without payment.Revelation 21:4‭-‬6 ESVhttps://bible.com/bible/59/rev.21.4-6.ESV

We just need to pray, fight the good fight, and surrender all thing’s to GOD.