Learning how to deal with conflict properly will significantly change the health and length of any relationship. Speaking from personal experience I promise you this is something you will want to embrace and an area you will want to grow in! I’m still a work in progress.
I will google or watch videos on doing so when in an argument.I hate feeling less than and have little patience.
I’m praying God changes my heart and I can slow done and look at the real heart of the matter.
It truly comes down to asking yourself why are you angry, upset, or arguing? What really is the heart of the matter? I personally like control and respect. That is opposite of what calls us to do. He calls us to show love, be compassionate, and have patience. What do you struggle with? How do you have successfully resolved conflict?